Hi Mateo,
Thank you for sharing your letter. I have a few questions about your situation.
What exactly do you think your girlfriend expects from you?
Who usually starts the misunderstandings between you?
Why don’t you try asking her directly about her feelings?
Isn’t it frustrating when communication isn't clear?
You want to make her happy, don't you?
Could you tell me what steps you have already taken to solve the problem?
Do you know if she realizes how her mixed signals affect you?
I wonder if you have considered talking to a counselor together.
Looking forward to hearing your answers!